Together With Their Families
The Celebration of Holy Matrimony
Aba, Abia State · October 24, 2026
The Families of
Umuokpulor, Abayi Ohanze, Obingwa LGA in Abia State
Ogbomoso, Ogbomoso South LGA in Oyo State
Cordially invites you to the Solemnization of Holy Matrimony of their children
ScholarsticaAdaku Samuel
JosephIdowu Oladiti
St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral, Aba
The Sacred Vow
The countdown
The doors open at half past nine. The vows are at ten. Everything after that is celebration.
Our story
Nobody plans the important parts. Ours began with a seat that was already taken and a conversation that never really ended.
She had come early to hold a seat for a friend who never showed up. He arrived late and asked anyway. Three years later, neither of them can agree on who was being difficult that afternoon — only that the conversation did not end when the service did.
“Three years later, neither can agree on who was being difficult — only that the conversation never ended.”
Two cities. One degree finished and another abandoned. A year neither of them likes to talk about, and several they will not stop talking about. Love is mostly logistics, and they got very good at logistics.
“Two degrees, distance, and years of devotion. Love is mostly logistics, and they got very good at logistics.”
Which was either very brave or very calculated, depending on who is telling it. She covered her face. Her mother started crying before the question finished. Somebody's phone was recording, thankfully, because nobody present can be trusted to remember it accurately.
“He asked in front of both families. Her mother started crying before the question even finished.”
On Saturday the twenty-fourth of October, at St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral in Aba, they will say it out loud in front of the people who got them here. That is the whole plan. The rest is food, noise and photographs.
“On Saturday, 24 October 2026, they say it out loud before God and the people who prayed them here.”
She had come early to hold a seat for a friend who never showed up. He arrived late and asked anyway. Three years later, neither of them can agree on who was being difficult that afternoon — only that the conversation did not end when the service did.
“Three years later, neither can agree on who was being difficult — only that the conversation never ended.”
Two cities. One degree finished and another abandoned. A year neither of them likes to talk about, and several they will not stop talking about. Love is mostly logistics, and they got very good at logistics.
“Two degrees, distance, and years of devotion. Love is mostly logistics, and they got very good at logistics.”
Which was either very brave or very calculated, depending on who is telling it. She covered her face. Her mother started crying before the question finished. Somebody's phone was recording, thankfully, because nobody present can be trusted to remember it accurately.
“He asked in front of both families. Her mother started crying before the question even finished.”
On Saturday the twenty-fourth of October, at St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral in Aba, they will say it out loud in front of the people who got them here. That is the whole plan. The rest is food, noise and photographs.
“On Saturday, 24 October 2026, they say it out loud before God and the people who prayed them here.”
Where we are
“Some of these numbers took longer than others.”
The album
Traditional, pre-wedding, and the ones taken by whoever happened to be holding a phone. Tap any frame to open it.
14 photographs
The day
Everything you need to plan your Saturday around us. If something here is unclear, ask — we would rather answer twice than have you guess.
Aba, Abia State, Nigeria
Date & Time
Saturday, 24 October 2026 · 10:00 AM
Procession begins promptly at 10:00 AM.
Church Address
St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral, Aba, Abia State, Nigeria
Wedding Dress Code
Burgundy, white and gold. Traditional or English attire are both warmly celebrated.
Order of Service
Holy Matrimony Service, exchange of vows & rings, signing of the marriage register, and thanksgiving photos on the cathedral steps.
St. Michael’s and All Angels Cathedral · Azikiwe Road, Aba, Abia State
Guest Guidance: Cathedral doors open at 9:15 AM. Guests are kindly encouraged to be seated before 9:45 AM.
Order of service
Come early. The cathedral fills faster than anyone expects, and the procession starts on time.
9:30 AM
Come early and greet loved ones. The cathedral fills quickly, and all guests are kindly requested to be seated before 9:45 AM.
10:00 AM
The bridal procession begins promptly at ten o'clock followed by scripture readings, sermon, and worship.
10:40 AM
The holy matrimony covenant, blessing and exchange of wedding rings, and pastoral pronouncement of marriage.
11:15 AM
Signing of the marriage certificates by the couple and sponsors, accompanied by joyful thanksgiving praises.
11:45 AM
Family portraits, bridal party, friends, and congregational photo sessions on the historic cathedral steps.
What to wear
Wear the colours if you can, and wear them well — there will be a lot of photographs. Traditional or English, both are welcome.
Agbada, Kaftan, or a tailored two-piece suit. A burgundy cap, gold pocket square, or fine embroidery connects you to the room effortlessly.
Stunning silhouettes in burgundy, warm ivory, or champagne gold. Gele or classy fascinators are warmly welcomed and encouraged for the ceremony.
Gentle Etiquette: Please kindly avoid wearing all-white so the bride stands out in the photographs.
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Style & Fabric Inspiration
Burgundy Splendour
White Lace & Coral
Isiagu & Royalty
Royal HarmonyRSVP
Every seat at this wedding belongs to somebody by name. Let us know before the first of September so yours has yours on it.
A Token of Love
Celebrating with us in person is everything we could pray for. If you also feel led to honour our union with a wedding gift, a contribution to our wishing well is received with joyful thanksgiving.
Direct Bank Blessing · Nigeria
Bank Name
Access Bank
Account Name
Joseph Idowu Oladiti
Account Number
0238273432
These details will be replaced with the couple’s confirmed account before this page is shared with guests. Please confirm the account name before sending.
Scholarstica & Joseph
The guestbook
A blessing, a warning, a memory you think we have forgotten. Messages are read before they appear here.
I have prayed for this day since she was small enough to sit on my lap during service. God does not forget. Come and eat well on Saturday.
Joseph, I have watched you rehearse that proposal for two years. It was worth every one of them. Congratulations, my brother.
Three years of choosing each other with wholehearted devotion. We will be in the third row, crying happy tears.
We are gaining a daughter, not losing a son. Scholarstica, the house has been waiting for you.
Travel & Where to Stay
Whether you are flying in from afar, booking an interstate luxury coach, or driving, here is everything you need to plan your journey and secure a comfortable stay.
Transit Guidance
Aba is accessible via direct airport transit from Port Harcourt / Owerri, or nationwide interstate luxury buses.
Recommended for Interstate & Diaspora Guests
Fly directly into Port Harcourt International Airport (PHC). From Port Harcourt, take a pre-booked airport car hire, interstate shuttle, or executive transit directly into Aba via the Port Harcourt–Aba expressway.
Direct Executive Coaches & Sprinters to Aba
Reputable interstate operators offer daily morning executive and luxury coach services directly to their Aba terminals from Lagos, Abuja, Enugu, Benin, Warri, and across Nigeria.
St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral
The solemnization ceremony takes place at St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral on Azikiwe Road, central Aba. Local taxi services, ride charters, and tricycles (keke) are available from every major hotel and bus terminal.
Cathedral vows start promptly at 10:00 AM on Saturday. Arriving on Friday afternoon lets you settle into your hotel comfortably, rest, and attend stress-free.
Lodging in Aba
Verified hotels within 5–12 minutes drive of St. Michael’s and All Angels Cathedral.
Approx. 10 minutes from the cathedral (3.5 km)
1–3 Margaret Avenue, Old G.R.A, Aba, Abia State
The premier luxury stay in Old G.R.A with executive rooms, serene swimming pool, on-site restaurant, and 24-hour private security.
Approx. 12 minutes from the cathedral (4.2 km)
18 Opobo Road, Ogbor Hill, Aba, Abia State
Upscale suites with modern luxury furnishings, stable electricity, fine dining, and excellent hospitality for wedding guests.
Approx. 6 minutes from the cathedral (1.8 km)
224/245 Market Road, Aba, Abia State
Centrally located with very quick access to the church. Contemporary rooms, outdoor lounge, and event amenities.
Approx. 5 minutes from the cathedral (1.2 km)
245 Ehi Road, Aba, Abia State
Boutique accommodation situated close to the cathedral axis, ideal for family and guests arriving Friday evening.
Mostly from the family WhatsApp group, asked here so we can stop answering them one by one.
Have special dietary preferences, accessibility needs, or inquiries about hotels and travel into Aba? Let the couple and planning team know directly.
Arrive by 9:30 AM — Procession starts at 10:00 AM sharp without delay.
Half past nine. The procession starts at ten and does not wait. If you arrive late the ushers will seat you at the back between hymns, which is a long time to stand in a doorway.
St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral
Ten o'clock. St. Michael's and All Angels Cathedral, Aba. We cannot wait to celebrate with you.
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